When a relationship is terminated, you should cease from all communication with that person. Does not matter how deep your feelings are for the individual. Cease from any and all communication, whether it be on social media, telephone, or otherwise. No speaking through other people is allowed. Forget the person even exists.
Here is why it's not a good idea to get your ex back:
- They had more than enough time to improvise in their mind how they're going to finish you off
- She or he can possibly think of something conniving to ruin your career
- Possibly has a scheme up their sleeve to make you look like a fool in front of others
- Entice you to attend an event to have you falsely arrested
There's someone else worthwhile worthy of marrying.