If a person really wants to change they will do so on their own with the without dating. Is that right? A man can't change a woman. A woman can change a man. You have to be willing to do it of yourself if you desire to achieve great things in life beyond meeting that special someone.
Dating and relationship expert Tonya TKO discusses the topic of "will the woman change if she meets Mr. nice guy." In the uncertain world of dating, don't be surprised if the person you're in a temporary relationship with reverts something to the effect of "going back to the past." That simply means they weren't ready from the beginning and need additional time to mature.
This is the time for you to strive harder to better yourself and get organized on the next level of meeting that special someone.