Why It's Not a Good Idea To Get Your Ex Back

[Contributing Editor]

When a relationship is terminated, you should cease from all communication with that person. Does not matter how deep your feelings are for the individual. Cease from any and all communication, whether it be on social media, telephone, or otherwise. No speaking through other people is allowed. Forget the person even exists.

Here is why it's not a good idea to get your ex back:

• They had more than enough time to improvise in their mind how they're going to finish you off
• She or he can possibly think of something conniving to ruin your career
• Possibly has a scheme up their sleeve to make you look like a fool in front of others
• Entice you to attend an event to have you falsely arrested

​​The list goes on. The ex is an ex for a reason. If the relationship didn't work in the first place what makes you think it'll work the second time around? Your ex is not to be trusted after the first break up. The acts is just a learning experience to have a more meaningful relationship with the next person. When you refuse to settle for sloppy seconds, that's when you're serious about having a fruitful relationship and getting organized.

There's someone else worthwhile worthy of marrying.